1. Get in a game. (There is a topic that lists beginner games here)
2. Ask to corp up and say you are new.
3. If you get killed come back and ask, hey! how did you do that?
4. Read TW Cabal
5. Read Dnyarri's Tutorials
6. Post here and ask for a private game of your liking to learn or knock the rust off. The server operators will bend over backwards to accommodate you.
7. Look for people in permacorps. Boo, Inc., Ground Zero, Krakken, Flying Aces. Ask them questions. Ask in the forums, save the PM questions for private stuff.
8. Don't whine. Ask questions instead. (I whined, it didnt help much)